Why I Don’t Blame Joel Embiid: Leave Family Out Of It
Joel Embiid has not played yet this season. Despite that, something he did this weekend became the talk of the NBA. The incident stems from a columnist, Marcus Hayes, bringing up Embiid’s late brother Arthur in a column where he was questioning Embiid’s work ethic.
Embiid understandably took issue with that. He called Hayes out in his press conference on Friday and noted that Hayes wasn’t there. Embiid was clearly frustrated by what Hayes wrote, and got a chance to confront him the following night.
Joel Embiid Confronts Marcus Hayes
Marcus Hayes was in the locker room after the game on Saturday. Embiid called him out. The two exchanged words, and it ended with Embiid reportedly shoving Marcus Hayes.
Obvioulsy that became the big NBA story of the night. Embiid likely will face discipline, including a potential suspension. But was he really the wrong one in this situation? The members of The Best Show Ever are not putting the blame on Joel Embiid, and Tyrone Johnson explained why on Monday.
“I can’t be mad at Joel Embiid and I won’t be. You don’t mess with people’s family at all. This is a job in which we talk about sports… And you are you bringing up somebody’s dead brother? And then Embiid is the problem. That’s not okay. It was never okay. We called it out last week that it wasn’t going to be okay.
And then he talks about I apologize? Why dont you apologize in print? The apology should be equal to the deed initially. I was looking for a column today. Where was the column with the apology? In the real world, there was none of these problems, from Jason Kelce, Joel Embiid, or anybody else, if you leave people’s family alone and keep them out of their mouths. It never needs to come up.
And hopefully, we learned something this weekend. And I don’t mean Jason Kelce and I don’t mean Joel Embiid. I hope other people who thought it was okay to bring up family. I hope they learned the lesson.“
Much of NBA Twitter seemed to agree. Even people who devote most of their time on there to being Embiid haters, backed him up this time. it united a Sixers fanbase, who have been mad at him for his early absence, behind Embiid.
Should Embiid have shoved him? Probably not. It will likely cause him a suspension. But the instinct to get that angry about what Hayes wrote is understandable. Just don’t bring up someone’s family. The rest of that column, even if you disagree with it, is fair game. But bringing up his brother who tragically passed away, was completely uncalled for.
That is why Tyrone, and many others, have a hard time blaming Joel Embiid for how he responded. What Marcus Hayes did was completely out of line. Leave the family members out of it.
Our own Kevin Cooney was present when the incident took place. You can hear his take on what happened in the below article.
Related: Kevin Cooney Recounts Joel Embiid Locker Room Incident on 97.5 The Fanatic [AUDIO]