5 Ways Cell Phones Ruin Almost Everything
I saw Kevin Kinkead (no, we aren’t related) write in his 10,000th post his most recent 50 hot takes about his frustration with phone usage at concerts. I couldn’t agree more though I don’t go to as many concerts today as I did in the past.
The problem with his take is that it doesn’t go far enough. I’ve long believed it and it’s only getting worse, phones ruin everything! In the constant fascination (for those who like to live out loud) to document everything in their daily lives phones have become completely invasive.
If you disagree with any of these I’m figuring you are a violator of one of these examples. Here are the worst of the worst…
Parents With Kids At Pool
There are few better moments than the memories of playing with your young children at the pool. Instead, I see young kids playing by themselves in a pool while Mom and Dad are busy scrolling IG or whatever task is so important that they can’t put their phones down. While I feel sorry for the kids missing out, I feel more sorry for what the parents are missing out on.
You’re Sitting Next To Them On The Plane
You make your way to your seat during boarding and find yourself in the middle of a conversation. Nobody is actually talking to you though. It’s the fool in the window seat carrying on a phone call loudly so you feel like you are a part of it. As they try and close that “big business deal” or tell you what time their plane lands, you will know more about your seatmate than you ever wanted to. Bonus jackass points for the person on the speaker.
Let Me Subject You To My Music Guy
I may or may not have my earbuds in, but I want to make sure I can hear my music and that everybody around me can hear it too. It’s another person you might encounter on a plane as they somehow nap while the music leaks 4 rows back. You could also just be out at a pool or beach where they believe they are the designated DJ for everyone.
The Party Of 4 All On Their Phones
The waiter or waitress is just trying to take your order. I know that it might seem inconvenient to make eye contact after your 4th “I’m at this restaurant” selfie, but it holds the staff up and every other table they can’t get to. I always wonder, are they texting each other? Try the pile the phones on the table strategy and go back to “olden times” when people conversed over a meal.
I’m In Line Behind You At The Airport
Yes, this line is long and moving slowly. I know those reels of puppies are intriguing, but everybody behind you doesn’t need you leaving 20 car lengths between you and the person in front of you. We all want to get somewhere and just ask that you look up once in a while.
Most Importantly, Live In The Moment
Not to wax too poetic, but I know a little bit about facing down potential regrets in life. It’s a lesson that I learned in my late 20’s that “tomorrow isn’t promised to any of us”. Last year it was reinforced as a refresher course. I think it’s important to be present and to actually experience moments. Documenting a moment isn’t the same thing. Is it a phone addiction? It sure seems like it to me.