Does Bar Etiquette For Guys Exist?
After shows here at 97.5 the Fanatic, we get into some very weird discussions. Last week, I was talking about a group of five friends getting together at a bar…

After shows here at 97.5 the Fanatic, we get into some very weird discussions.
Last week, I was talking about a group of five friends getting together at a bar when I started thinking about etiquette. Men over the age of 50 (in case this is a generational difference, I wanted to clarify) were meeting up and sitting and congregating physically at the bar. It’s a PJ Whelihan’s that you could find in any local community. I’m not claiming I’m right or dictating your behavior, but I’d love to hear the counter claims!
Can one of five guys sitting at a bar order a martint if the other four order a beer?
I say that it is incredibly odd to see five guys with beer bottles or drafts (I can’t imagine drinking bottled beer when beer is on tap, but that’s my own personal bias) when one of them is sipping a martini. In that setting, who are you? James Bond? Read the room.
Is it different if the one guy gets a gin and tonic instead of the martini?
A shot and a mixer is always a viable option when sitting at a bar. It just seems different to me than a fancy martini glass. Give me a Tanqueray and Tonic any day. I wouldn’t choose the draft beer.
Is fruit in your beer a violation?
Ever since the introduction of Corona, I believe fruit and beer sort of became an acceptable choice. A good Corona or Blue Moon is perfect.
Do you ever acknowledge peer pressure to get what your buddies are getting?
I know where I come from originally in the 19008, everything is subject to ridicule. Peer pressure exists if only for comedy purposes among old friends.
Can you sit at a bar and drink canned seltzers?
I’m thinking "skinny jeans and backwards hats indoor guy" would approve of this. A guy wearing his Chubbies and a polo with a white undershirt under it is probably sitting next to him.
Summation
Before anyone chimes in with the “do what you want,” let me clarify that nobody ultimately should judge over this bar etiquette. If you have a group of friends that exists like on a TV show that isn't constantly busting each others' stones, sit this one out. This was a bar in Delco, and that friend group doesn’t exist.
There aren’t any wrong answers, but I do believe this all falls within generational lines. Debate away…oh, and cheers!
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Jason Kelce is calling it a career. There were reports immediately following the playoff game that it was over. Adam Schefter reported it the following day. You could almost tell with the way he was acting after the game. But we still hadn't heard it from the man himself. Taht changed today. Jason Kelce spoke to the media today and announced he is calling it a career.
Kelce is easily one of the most beloved players in the Eagles' history. Not just for how great he is on the field, but for what he has done off of it. This year marked the 6th time he made the All-Pro first team. Only 5 other centers made at least 6 All-Pro teams. Only 1 did so in the last 50 years. What makes it more impressive is he made all of them after turning 30. Kelce closed out his career by being named the best center in 6 of his final 7 seasons.
He will walk into Canton one day. The Eagles will almost certainly retire his number one day. But Eagles fans don't need any of those accolades to know how great Kelce is.
With Centers, it is hard to put together a highlight reel. A lot of what offensive linemen do does not necessarily get noticed by fans on a play-to-play basis. Jason Kelce changed that bit. There are so many big plays in the last 13 seasons where you will see Jason Kelce downfield leading the way for the ball carrier. Kelce changed the position. Forcing teams to look for more agile centers like him, as opposed to the old-school brick wall we often saw play center in the past.
So in honor of his great career, let's look back on some of our fondest Jason Kelce memories.
Here are some of Jason Kelce's best moments on and off the field:
His Parade Speech
The parade speech is what took Kelce from being a great player, and turned him into an Eagles legend. Every Eagles fan will remember his speech about how much people doubted the Eagles for the rest of time. People knew and liked him before the speech. But it was only after the speech that he became nearly everybody's favorite player.
His Down Field Blocks
This is less about the play itself, and more just a representative of the types of blocks he made his whole career. Here we saw Kelce block Mason Foster 14 yards down field, and then make an additional block to lead the way for a Darren Sproles TD. No other center had the knack for making blocks downfield the way Kelce did. And this was one of his most impressive blocks.
Jason Kelce Reacts To The AJ Brown Trade
Jason Kelce has a future in broadcasting. He has dipped his toes in it a bit during his career. Kelce joined the Thursday Night Football crew earlier this year during the Eagles' bye week. And he has shown he has the personality, and the smarts, to do the job. But my favorite moment of him in front of the camera came from when he joined Bleacher Report to cover the draft. And we got his live reaction to the Eagles trading for AJ Brown. He also had a great reaction to the Eagles drafting Jordan Davis earlier in the night.
Fast For a Center
One of the craziest parts of Kelce's game is how fast he is for a center. It goes along with what he talked about earlier with him making downfield blocks. But we saw earlier this season, that even at 36, he can still move. Most centers don't move like this. Kelce was at the end of his career and still doing it.
The Christmas Albums
It's not just on the field though that Kelce made magic happen. He did it in the recording studio too. The Eagles Christmas album has been a highlight in each of the past two seasons. And while his voice may be the weakest of the 3 Eagles Linemen, it still was just another thing to add to his legacy.
Being Named Sexiest Man Alive
On top of all the awards he won from the NFL, he also received an award this year that no one but his wife saw coming. People Magazine made him a finalist for The Sexiest Man Alive. There is a reason they call him Sexy Batman.
The Iron Man Streak
Perhaps the craziest thing about Kelce's career, is how healthy he has been. Playing center takes its toll. Just go watch his Amazon Prime Doc to see the injuries Kelce deals with on a day-to-day basis. But he always played. He got injured in his 2nd season, and since then never missed a single game. He broke Jon Runyan's franchise record for consecutive starts. With his retirement, his streak will end at 157 games. For an offensive lineman to be that dependable, is incredibly impressive.
He Gets Philly Fans
Perhaps the biggest reason we love him, is he just gets Philly fans. He proved that during his retirement speech.
Thank you for everything Jason.